Vital choices for happy relationships:
practice self love first.
know that it is not the other persons just to make you happy. the only person that can do that is you.
focus on compatibility.
be friends first.
find the person who inspires you to be a better you, and always encourage them to become the best them.
practice acceptance.
accept that not everyone or everything is perfect. we are all perfectly flawed.
be non-demanding of your partner- partners dont tell eachother what to do.
have realistic expectations.
dont expect to be happy all the time.
keep realistic standards for eachother.
dont sweat the samll things, and speak up when it is really important to you.
be kind in words and deeds.
think about the persons feelings before you speak or criticize them.
have compassion and grow together, not apart as years go on.
be honest.
talk about things.
compromise and dream together.
sometimes you feel everything and nothing all at once.
sometimes you find yourself smiling while missing something at the same time.
at times you can absolutely love a person while wanted to hate them.
life comes with out gurantees;
but you can expect that smiling will brighten your face,
laughing will enhance your eyes,
and falling in love will change your life.
until you’re broken- you dont know what you’re made of
love, ive come to realize is more than three words muttered before bedtime.
love is sustained by actions, a pattern of devotion in things we do for eachother..everyday.
he doesnt make sense.
i dont make sense.
but together, we make sense.
they were in love.
you could tell just by the way they looked at eachother,
like they had the most wonderful secret between the two of them.
